Accountants,
I’ve discovered, tend to be rational, realistic, logical pragmatists. They live
ordered lives based on predictable outcomes that they have reasoned are most
practical and sensible, and the least likely to vary.
Accountants
love numbers, numerical calculations, spreadsheets and budgets. Predictability is their comfort zone. They find great
satisfaction in balancing the figures at the end of the day, and providing a
nest-egg for the end of their life.
The Accountant
loves order. His genius comes to the fore sitting at a desk which is arranged
in orderly fashion with an in-tray and an out-tray, neatly stacked manila
folders and a pen, looking out at filing cabinets conveniently aligned in
alphabetical order along the far, unadorned wall.
Accountants pride themselves on being frugal. They waste nothing. When faced with the challenge of writing a birthday card for his daughter, even though he loves her dearly, the Accountant will more than likely simply write, "To Jule, love Dad", for the sake of being economical with words.
The Accountant
is in no danger of becoming a hoarder. He looks at each and every object and
asks, “Do I need this? Will I use this in the near future?” ‘Minimalist’ is a
term that comes to mind.
Accountants
are steadfast, reliable people who stick to the rules and are unlikely
to ruffle any feathers. They like to plan ahead and to be prepared for any
eventuality. They do not like surprises.
How do I know
these things?
My father is an
accountant.
Artists on the
other hand, tend to be imaginative, inventive, creative, idealistic dreamers.
They like to leave options open, to explore all possibilities, to be
spontaneous. Not always content with the status quo, Artists love the challenge
of creating alternative pathways in life, and find great delight in anything
that looks or behaves out-of-the-ordinary.
The Artist
finds various means to express himself -
it may be through paint on a canvas, words on a page, actions on a stage, or solving
a problem that has presented itself. To this
end he looks at every object that comes his way and asks, “What masterpiece is
lying within?” and it’s this addiction to ‘possibility thinking’ that causes
him to throw nothing away.
The Artist is
happiest when he is alone in his ‘creating space’. His studio / study is left
‘unordered’ so that inspiration can flow freely. Artists do not always
appreciate helpful people tidying up for them. It can be challenging for the Artist at times to focus on the practicalities of life, when their creative mind is
otherwise engaged. However, at the end of the day, their genius confounds us
all, when it brings to reality those amazing things the rest of us can merely dream about.
How do I know
these things?
My husband is
an Artist.
That’s right –
I have both an Accountant and an Artist who feature prominently in my life. My father Colin, and my husband Ross, could not be more different, and I can't imagine life without either one!
Yet, despite
being poles apart personality-wise, they actually have a lot in common. It’s a commonality
that springs from their personal faith in God.
For as long as
I have known both my father and my husband, their steadfast commitment to Jesus
Christ has been the focus of all they do in life. They have both spent a
lifetime focused on knowing God, and making him known. They ceaselessly use
their gifts and talents to build up their family, the Church, their local
community and beyond.
And thinking
about it now, I guess the reason I manage to relate so happily with both, is because
even though they are poles apart in
temperament, there resides within my own (oft-times conflicted) DNA, attributes
of both!
Furthermore, I've come to see hints of both the Accountant and the Artist finding expression also in my children, and in my grandchildren.
Or is it the image of God that I see?
I love the honour you give to what must at times be a frustrating mix between your Dad and me. You have expressed the differences and common faith beautifully.
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